Ryan

I've been talking to this guy Ryan for the past few months. He moved here from California to Mesa about a 6 weeks ago. I'm totally unsure of this guy not in creepy sort of way. Ryan lives good standards he just send mix messages.  I'll explain before he moved here he was practically in love with me. Calling me all the time. He would say nice things to me. Then he moved here and the second i met him in person he brings his friend Jake along. I'm not sure if this was some sort of validation as to whether i'm cute enough for him. After I practically go on a date with his friend, Ryan tells me well I think we should take things slow. Lol. then he tries to kiss me the next day. I was totally confused as to why he told me he wanted to take things slow and then he tried to kiss me. Shortly after that he stop talking to me, deleted me on facebook, deleted my number. I saw him on a dating site recently and said to him can we be friends. he said sure. So lately we have been hanging out again. But I get the feeling that his biggest thing with me is my weight lately. The funny thing is he isn't Mr. Universe if you know what I mean. So how can he judge me for having a few extra lbs. I invited to take him out to dinner just as friends because I was tired of him always wanting to come over to my house and just watch movies. He finally said to me I think I'd rather try a buffett at a Casino but you should pay for yourself and I'll pay for me which is Dutch. When he does come over to my house we usually watch what he wants to watch. He always seems to want to come over or invite me to things at the last minute because he has know one else to hang out with. He called me early this morning around 9:30 am on a Saturday to go to the movies. Probably something he wanted to see once again and I'll probably have to pay for myself once again. Am I the only one seeing a pattern here with Ryan? I just hope I get back down to my ideal weight and look hot again and see what his reaction will be. I've already lost those feelings for Ryan that I had in the begining. I only want to be friends with him.


Ryan called me later yesterday afternoon to come over. When he got to my house he wanted to go to the mall to get his cellphone fixed. When we got to the store the clerk was at lunch Ryan quickly changed his mind about getting his phone fixed. (this was so weird to me) He seemed worried about paying the $5.00 to get it fixed. After we left that store we went to Best Buy where he bought both Batman movies and a soda. He seemed to be in such a bad mood because he hadn't eaten that day. I was thinking to myself you have money to buy Batman movies but not lunch. so weird. I was confused. I don't know why he wanted to hang out if he was going to be such a grump.